tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9032959933746465708.post3776880246818787774..comments2013-08-12T18:17:08.497+08:00Comments on mental lexicon iii: niqabnur.najibhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16545080532669980039noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9032959933746465708.post-70515552003431423072011-01-04T01:37:21.389+08:002011-01-04T01:37:21.389+08:00am not intended to bashing anyone kak. but if you ...am not intended to bashing anyone kak. but if you already taking a stand to wear niqab which is sunnah, and it is stricter than the mubah, it should be based on deeply concern and in-depth iman.some might argue, niqabi is just people cant escape any wrongdoins.<br /><br />yes.people cant stop judging people.once you have opted to actually 'stricter' the term of aurah , that shpuld comes in hands with better ibadah.thats the chronology.and thats the way ppl thinking.<br /><br />if not, niqabi should ask themselves again.why on earth am wearing it? thats answered why some are same like others.niqabi with gedik2 pose.niqabi talking with ajnabi men.<br /><br />quoted again : pemberatan aurah sepatutnya hasil daripada pemberatan iman dan amal.<br /><br />kalau tak bley membawa kpd zindiq dan riak<br /><br />wallahualamnur.najibhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16545080532669980039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9032959933746465708.post-54647750175885388112011-01-03T15:36:43.456+08:002011-01-03T15:36:43.456+08:00macam dejavu pula. I had a dream last night, with ...macam dejavu pula. I had a dream last night, with regards of niqabi. tak tahu kenapa, i heard a voice stating that among 20 hijabis, there's 1 not accepted their hijabi..haha. mainan tidur jer tu. but the reasoning during dream was simple, the voice told, because you weren't sincere enough.<br /><br />well, we tend to beautify ourselves to please other, and not Allah. no pun intended. berhijab, tapi pakai leggings, tudung mesti la up to-trend etc etc. my ustaz commented, cuba lah kita ni pilih baju pejam mata je, ni nak matching itu ini. dush terkena balik kat muka sendiri, hehe<br /><br />suka sangat article ni<br /><br />Before I got married, I was given unsolicited advice on how to change in order to make myself “more appealing” to brothers. Sisters would voluntarily tell me I should be more outgoing when with men, dress more attractively to get their attention and stop being as involved with Islamic activism so I would not scare them away.<br /><br />Since when is our purpose in life marriage? Where in the Qur’an does Allah ask us to change our personalities, dress style and tone down our activism in hopes of getting hitched? Nevertheless, with marriage being such a huge concern in our community, many face the temptation to change their values to find a spouse.<br /><br />Here’s an idea: Instead of working to please a potential suitor, perhaps we should first seek to please Allah, the One who sows the seed of love in our hearts and can bless us with our dream husband or dream wife…<br /><br />http://www.suhaibwebb.com/personaldvlpt/hook-up-with-allah-allah-will-hook-you-up/Ummu Aunihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18195707896347258604noreply@blogger.com