happy dakwah ii : dakwah thru music

i saw new combustion of songs with good message in current situation.credited to my husband who sometimes tuning to Hot fm to cease all the sleepy-ness caused by boring discussion on ikim.fm.

i didnt take a hard or syadid stand when it comes to entertainment although me myself are not a keen music listener (except for samy yusuf.he is god-sent to us!!*alamak terikut gaya wan azizah plak da)
i believe in self-control and wasatiyyah is indeed important when handling mubah cases.

several new songs like kekanda adinda by monoloque & atilia , is for me a very good song with very good message for facing the increasing of divorces among Malaysian. the song beautifully potrayed dilemma of a wife in choosing a career or starting a family. well,of course, argument is mostly there in any marriage.and the solution stated on the song among others : mari kita komunikasi. (let us communicate)

then, the song by suhaimi meor hassan & anna rafali.im not sure the title but the lyrics advised the unmarried couple to avoid being overboard. : jangan pegang2 jalan renggang2 (dont touch each other , walk apart)
again, during the wave of baby dumping season, this song at least tickling the sense of coupling people who listen to this kind of music.

and the maher zain's craze is indeed one very good way introducing nasyeed to youngsters who shying themselves to this kind of genre.they started to sang the dzikr and dua which for me something that we should be happy to see it.imagine this : youngster who never knew arabic words and rarely in touch with islam, suddenly utter the Barakallahu lakuma wa barakah..subhanallah, i hope they will find the meaning and ALLAH gives hidayah to them.

again...dakwah is indeed has vast method and approach.think of our mad'u (the people we want to dakwah) and we should try our best to actually tackling them.if music can do it, let it be.make the music more meaningful and full of naseehah (advice) and let them infuse with good word such as dzikr,dua from the song.
me, myself re-treasured the beautiful of islam thru music too! i'tiraf by raihan.masyaAllah, i turned to a new leaf, from people who sometimes neglecting islam to fully commit to it.



dont just talk.walk the talk.

enuff

i might say, i have good quality in fashion department. although im having a 'zuhd' life nowadays (hehe) but seriously, it doesnt kill my fashion sense.in fact im made a good fashion police.people can judge me.

but am not putting my focus on fashion.i just wear abaya & shayl.i said JUST.not for any other reason.i wear it for it modesty & comfort.i prefer a toned down design & satin.in fact,the minimal it is the more i like it.
the era of fashionista on me had faded (lol!!budget artis hollywood?)

so now, i became bored to visit fashion-based sites.furthermore yg ada abaya-based.kalau jual xpa juga.ni set yg fashion2.kalau nk berlebih2 sgt,sy takkan berabaya.saya pakai je kaftan.maybe kita patut dengar balik perkataan TABARRUJ la kot.

yeah.back to normal life: game..kehkehkeh

my kid is the best?

i cant stand it.many parents want their child to be gifted. a child is a gifted in natural way. if you learn how children acquire their life skills , youll be amazed! thats how ALLAH plan the best for these cute creatures!
i read on paper, an actress said her 6months old baby can walk.at 1 year old can read.aiyooo!!be it. this is extreme cases.

my response was: god blimey!! i believe in the natural (fitrah) way.you can guided the development but not forcing or exerting it.every child is unique & special.enjoy the moments with them.feeding too much cognitive inputs without taking any consideration of others input ,e.g., communication,social,motor is not a good thing to do.

mom & career

work with passion.thats the key.if you are a career mom, enjoice it.bear in mind, you are working to gain His pleasure by helping your family economy and society. if you think that way, ALLAH, the most merciful & compassionate will give the best for you in return. dont feel upset for not having enough time with your kids. instead, grab the most time you with quality engagement.it is really a quality not quantity that the kids treasured.

if not,you felt grumpy on the less-time spent on your kids, take bold action.quit and find something you enjoy doing it.be a SOHO mom or full-time homemaker. by doing that, your niah of working because of Him are not betrayed. think about thousand of people who really badly needs your job.if you loss passion on it,leave it and stop whining.

there is choice in our life.sometimes, we cant have it all perfect.we need to balance.feel guilty wont help either.taking bold action that truly satisfy your innerself is the only solution.otherwise it just covering the surface of the issues.

wallahualam

open up

i cant stand people who blasting all things from west are bad and came with hidden agenda. there are some bloc of people who abstain themselves from having vaccination and avoiding any kind of family planning based on "that's Jews agenda". OMG!(reminder: this pillow talks applicable for married couples.i didnt condone any illegal sexual intercourse among muslim (read:ZINA) in facts i hate that so much)

did you know that, medical advancement is a gift from God? it is really up to us to think which is good and which is not.in our country, the rate of maternal & infant fatality are dropped and among the lowest in the region.why? because of the quality offered by the health service in our country; in which includes proper ante-natal care and post natal care.we have vaccination fro examples Rubella,HPV,UTT; which is helps on diminishing the risk of fatality during pregnancy. these vaccine also helped by promising better health and preventing any worst case.

what i cant stand is,when people kept condemning, this is all the agenda from jews to ruin the muslims.i see this ante-natal care is a good way of taking yourself during pregnancy.it prevents you from having any complication later on.

and talking about married woman, contraception is a hit among us. if you want many kids go ahead.dont blame people who use contraception. there is no wrong for married couples to plan their family. see what happened now? we are good in quantity but somehow it doesnt translate into quality. even in Islam, breastfeeding is encouraged until 2 years old because it is good way of family planning (i think that is why ALLAH stated 2 years, so that you can continue bear a child later on.2 years are ideal for next baby, i guess.again,this is what the muslim scientist should study.there is always an idea on what ALLAH said).
even among the sahabah of prophet Muhammad saw, practiced azal (ejaculated outside the vagina) to prevent pregnancies.

i didnt know what to say.sometimes we need to open up a lil bit.you have internet, use it to find info.

alhamdulillah

the crisis is over.everybody learnt a lesson. ALLAH gave us the hardship, so that we treasured Him for the relief.
subhanallah.masyallah.alhamdulillah.allahuakbar.

opinion,anyone?

i often involved on heated discussion. be it on the real life or the virtual one. it is not that i am a person who likes to argue. it is more to "i am a person who loves to voice my controversial and critical opinions".*dang.but again, i speak the facts.am not going to argue something which is not based on the scientific findings or the documented facts.it just wasted my time to be indulged on some hearsay *OMG..am i sound like a lawyer?

malaysia is a place where we breed timid people who often hiding their views and opinions. we are society that shaped up by 'keep quiet' is the best. however, this situation is true to the extend of the real world. but in virtual life, we can be that nasty and whatchamacalit?*coward.well,it is not a weird thing.in Malay society, the rising usage of black magic or sihr is one of the best evidence on how coward Malay is.we tend to have sweet talk, polite attitude in front but the bad,evil and yucky heart inside.then we sorted to the black magic to fail our hated people's life.

ok.back to the real issues on being opinionated.am might saying that,i am indeed a person who a bit stubborn and as long as people can provide an evidence on what am saying is rubbish, ill fight for it until the end.it just my nature that, am not easily give up.often, i view some issues 1000 years ahead *ok.im exaggerating at this point.i always look some issue from many perspectives. from my personal psycho-profile, i am blessed with high empathy; in which explaining on why i always put my self on other's heels*kiddink.suppose shoes.

but,am not sure.in malaysia,politician or people who joined the politic wagon,no matter how many doctoral dissertation they have, they tended to slip their mind and suddenly became a monkey.*thanks my ex-schoolmate,arif atan on this idea.they cant stand the heated arguments with rational and clear conscience.resulting on bad-mouthing which actually make a fool of themselves.and at the same time, this kind of people is dreaming of leading the country?my saying is : pah (which is a gesture indicating no in deaf)
you can lead a country.planet of the apes, might suit you.