once before

i once frequenting a lactation forum.but i get bored and stopped visiting it or took part on it.reasons (this might get controversial later on..hehe):

1. some issues were often commented based on EMOTION.
2. some tips offered were too FOLKLORE-ish (ex:use bla bla.this what my grandma told.)
3. sometimes went overboard.too detail and full of description on lactating problems (ex:my n*** became reddish, a bit short bla bla).and others' including men reading it for godsake!
   
4. sometimes shifted into criticizing the spouse.
5. sometimes too much attention to their own kids.(ok i got mine too.no need to brag or make them as the cetre of attraction)

and i guess this among the reasons my husband said im not like any other woman.he said i am too logic and reasoning.and "kering dan masin seperti ikan masin*" * my attitude not physical feature what-so-ever.and thats answered why i love scientific research and teaching educational research..buhawahawa